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Writing, therapy or both? #IWSG

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It’s time for author, Alex J. Cavanaugh’s – Insecure Writer’s Support Group – post! Our Twitter handle is @TheIWSG and hashtag is #IWSG.

The awesome co-hosts for the June 7 posting of the IWSG are Patrcia Josephine, Diedre Knight, Olga Godim, J. Lenni Dorner, and Cathrina Constantine!

June 7 question – If you ever did stop writing, what would you replace it with?

I’ve made a lifelong commitment to the study of philosophy, psychology and behavioral neuroscience. Spending time with loved ones, listening to music and working as a healer keeps me busy. No matter how I pack my days I can’t imagine throwing away my pen. I’ll always write fiction.

Noir mysteries are my favorite novels. I’ve been told my taste in genre would change as I mature; but after working at 3 bookstores and receiving a masters in writing and consciousness – mystery has remained choice!

Writing stories is a coping mechanism I’m lucky to have. Writing grounds me and helps integrate information.

Above are pics of my generous friend’s guitars. My guitars are cool – but not Dave’s guitars’ cool! I don’t play enough to commit to an investment. I’m fortunate to have talented musicians among my family, adopted family/friends.

When someone takes the time to read my writing I’m honored. Even if no one read my work, which is more often the case, I’ll never stop writing.

If I stopped writing I’d have to replace it with therapy. More therapy!

What would you do if you ever stopped writing?

I always return comments! If the punctuation’s weird it’s because I’m using hands free in traffic. Looking forward to everyone’s posts!

Dark Energy & Black Holes #IWSG #AmWriting

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Join us https://www.insecurewriterssupportgroup.com/p/iwsg-sign-up.html

Our Twitter handle is @TheIWSG and hashtag is #IWSG.
The awesome co-hosts for the June 1 posting of the IWSG are SE White,Cathrina Constantine,Natalie Aguire,Joylene Nowell Butler, and Jacqui Murray!

It’s time for Alex J. Cavanaugh’s Insecure Writer’s Support Group post. Every month, we announce a question to share advice, insight, a personal experience or story.

June 1 question – When the going gets tough writing the story, how do you keep yourself writing to the end?

Margaret Atwood stopped writing The Handmaid’s Tale multiple times because she felt the story was too implausible. It would never be popular. Yes, she’s quoted on that.

90% of writing is powering through obstacles. There are mornings I stare at my computer and write copy, edit copy, review anthology submissions, or keep a problematic chapter going by thinking a played out 90’s Nike slogan. Really.

We all have dark energy. Dark energy is energy we can’t see. We just know it’s there. It’s there and we can’t let it get sucked into a black hole. Black holes are the crap piles on your desk. The ghosts of projects uncompleted whispering, “You sure you want to do this again?”

Black holes suck away energy. I once threw a black hole (stack of crap) into the bin next to my desk without even bothering with what was on the top. If I hadn’t looked at it in a week, it wasn’t important. I still have only a vague idea of what it consisted of.

Helpful quotes like, “One sentence creates an avalanche.” become a mantra. While clawing, scratching, and pulling crap out of the ether to spin into relatable thought provoking platforms of inquiry and discovery I have to accept this will not be enjoyable.

I can think of 100 other things I’d rather be doing. Cleaning toilets. Holding an open pillowcase as far away from my person as possible while my friend thrusts her angry snakes towards me with a handler stick. (This really happened.) Cleaning barnacles off a boat with a rusty scraper wearing leaky snorkel gear in questionable Bay Area water. Chores like that. I’ve put my head in my hands thinking, “I’d rather be drilling screws through my toes.”

Despite all this nothing feels as good as the hit of dopamine received upon completion. My name’s on it. I feel fulfilled. Feedback rereleases the initial hit. The memory of the feeling keeps me going back.

What keeps you writing? I will return comments promptly as long as my robots let me!